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Transforming relationships
When I was in college, I worked for what seemed like an eternity as a waiter to pay the bills. The flexibility, high pay relative to other entry-level positions, and especially the social climate were extremely attractive to me fresh out of high school.
Nice guys finish last
For the last few years, I had a close friend in my life who has been waging a war against being “nice.” He would become annoyed whenever I exhibited this particular behavior, and it often left me feeling judged and rejected. How could somebody tell me that I was wrong to be nice when all I was trying to do was treat people with respect?
Setting boundaries with kindness and compassion
With the holidays behind us and the realization, at least here in Bozeman, that winter will be around for quite a bit longer, I like to reflect on what changes during this long, cold, dark season.